Shoshana Fruchter Samuels ’08S was studying in the Graduate Program for Women of Advanced Talmudic Study (GPATS) at Stern College for Women when her husband, Ayol Samuels ’08YC, whom she had met on a Counterpoint trip to Honduras (co-sponsored by YU’s Center for the Jewish Future and the American Jewish World Service) in January ’06, was accepted into medical school in a joint program with Ben Gurion University in Israel and Columbia University. The program entails three years of study at Ben Gurion in the southern Israeli town of Be’er Sheva, with the final year of study at Columbia University in New York. Shoshana decided to get her Master’s in Jewish philosophy from Ben Gurion and enroll at Nishmat to receive training to become a yoetzet. That first year in Israel, Shoshana gave birth to her first child, Yehuda. She often took him, snug in a baby sling, along with her to class at Ben Gurion and Nishmat, which is based in Jerusalem and over an hour away from Be’er Sheva. She remarks, “Finding the balance between my dual studies and motherhood, and setting up a home in Israel was somewhat difficult, but it taught me to set very specific time frames in which to accomplish specific goals.”
“I tried to use every second wisely, and when that wasn’t enough I stayed up really late,” she laughs.
At Nishmat, she was in a group of ten women, which included Sarah Cheses ’06S, a fellow Stern graduate who was living in Israel at the time. “The hardest part about Nishmat was the intensity of the learning, but at the same time, it was also the best thing about it,” explains Shoshana. “I appreciated the level of learning and ability to really dive into the texts in-depth.” It was Shoshana’s training at GPATS that helped prepare her for the rigors of such concentrated learning. “At GPATS, I had the opportunity to develop my learning skills in preparation for Rabbi Moshe Kahn's shiur and to learn Niddah with Rabbi Gedaliah Berger, and today, in my role as a yoeztet, I have gone back to consult my notes from that time,” says Shoshana.
Her skills in juggling numerous roles and responsibilities have helped Shoshana balance moving back to the States just after giving birth to her second child, Shlomo, and maintaining two jobs as a halacha and Jewish philosophy teacher at Ma’ayanot High School for Girls in Teaneck, NJ while serving as a yoetzet for Congregations Rinat Yisrael, Netivot Shalom and the broader Jewish community. Shoshana also serves as a visiting yoetzet for the Jewish community in Los Angeles, traveling a total of six times this year for Shabbat or weekend visits. Shoshana declared, “Becoming a yoetzet is, for me, a win-win. Not only did I get to engage in high-level study with women who are serious about their Jewish learning, but I was fortunate to emerge from the program with very practical skills that allow me to utilize my knowledge ‘on the ground.’ That I am able to use the knowledge I gained at Nishmat to help women is really a dream come true.”
Shoshana’s former Nishmat classmate, Sarah Cheses, thought she would become a doctor and, accordingly, majored in biology at Stern. “In my genetics class, Dr. Babich brought in Torah sources that related to the topic at hand. I once told him that I loved the fact that when we walked into genetics class there were excerpts from the gemara waiting to be studied, and the next day he gave me a whole packet filled with articles on Torah and science,” says Sarah. “That’s pretty unique to Stern.”
Sarah was drawn to teaching while in college, and taught science and Jewish philosophy at a girls high school after graduating. She then moved to Israel with her husband for a couple of years while he finished his semicha at the Gruss Institute. “When I first heard of Nishmat’s yoetzet program, I thought it was the perfect way for me to combine my love of learning halacha, and health and teaching,” says Sarah.
Now back in the U.S., she is completing her Master’s in public health at Columbia. She and her husband, who have a 17-month old daughter, Adina, also serve as JLIC educators for Yale University; the Orthodox Union’s Jewish Learning Initiative on Campus sends educators to serve on different college campuses throughout the U.S. to enhance Jewish learning and life on campus. Although she is not currently serving as a yoeztet for any particular community, she plans to give classes to different communities in the near future, and she is learning the laws of niddah in one of her chevrutas (study partnerships) at Yale.
“We all learn the basics of halacha, either in school or from our parents, but we often need to ask questions on more complicated issues. With nidda, most women receive lessons before their weddings, and that certainly isn’t enough education to know what to do in every situation,” explains Sarah. “Some women don’t feel comfortable asking a rabbi their questions on niddah and taharat hamishpacha, and having a community yoetzet allows those women to ask their questions, enabling them to keep halacha correctly and in a more enjoyable way.”
Aliza Segal ’93S, ’93BR, a native of Memphis, TN, was one of Nishmat’s first graduates, in 2000. After graduating Stern, she received her Master’s in Bible from the Bernard Revel Graduate School of Jewish Studies, where she met her husband, Dr. Michael Segal. The couple moved to Israel, which had been their longtime dream, and settled in Beit Shemesh. Aliza began teaching at Michlelet Mevaseret Yerushalayim (MMY), a seminary that offers serious learning for post-high school young women. “When Nishmat opened in 1997, it immediately interested me because I had been looking to learn in a high-level beit midrash for women, and its mission to help women appealed to me,” says Aliza. “It wasn’t clear right away what the program would turn out to be, and the term ‘yoetzet halacha’ was only created when they needed to put something on our certificates when we graduated!”
She continues, “Nishmat’s program turned out to be a revolutionary thing for the Jewish community, and I’m proud to be a part of that beginning.” After completing the program, Aliza taught at Ma’ayanot High School in NJ when her husband’s post-doctorate studies took them to the States for a year, and conducted educational research at Atid, the Academy for Torah Initiatives and Directions, back in Israel. She worked for the Nishmat hotline, and has fielded hundreds of personal calls (and visits) from women throughout Beit Shemesh and other communities in Israel, and sometimes even the U.S.
“There was such a thirst from women to have a female address these halachic issues of taharat hamisphacha,” says Aliza. She then went to obtain her Ph.D. in education at Hebrew University. Now, the Segals and their four boys, who range in age from 5 to 16, are back in the U.S. as Aliza completes her post-doc at New York University. She says, “I think it’s wonderful that a yoetzet has become professionalized in the U.S. within a communal setting. It will be nice when that happens in Israel as well.”
When asked about the best part of being a yoetzet, Aliza remarks, “Seeing the relief in someone’s eyes when she realizes she’s not alone in her situation, and that she has someone to help her get through it. There’s joy and sadness in this position, but seeing that feeling of relief is the most poignant for me.”
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Archive for November 30th, 2011
Stern Alumnae Shoshana Samuels ’08S, Sarah Cheses ’06S and Aliza Segal ’93S, ’93BR Utilize Learning Skills to Serve the Jewish Community
Wednesday, November 30th, 2011A Month of Celebration and Gratitude for RIETS with Annual Dinner and Thanksgiving Yarchei Kallah
Wednesday, November 30th, 2011
Rabbi Lichtenstein holds the Rabbi Henoch and Sarah D. Berman Chair in Talmud at RIETS, and has served as educational director at YU’s Gruss Institute Kollel in Jerusalem since the program’s inception. He received semicha from his teacher and father-in-law, Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveichik, a”h, and earned his Ph.D. at Harvard University in English literature before returning to RIETS to serve as a rosh yeshiva and rosh kollel. Yaffi Spodek, editor of YUToday, interviewed Rabbi Lichtenstein about his life, affiliation with YU, and his thoughts on being honored by YU and RIETS; the transcript for the article can be found HERE. After being introduced by President Richard M. Joel and the Max and Marion Grill Dean of RIETS Rabbi Yona Reiss, Rabbi Lichtenstein responded by giving his thoughts on Birkot HaTorah (the blessings before commencing Torah study).
Rabbi Julius and Dorothy Berman are longtime board members and staunch supporters of Yeshiva University. Rabbi Berman ’56YC, ’60R currently serves as chairman of the Board of Trustees of RIETS and is a member of the Executive Committee of YU. A lawyer and partner at Kay Scholer LLP, he also serves as chairman of the Conference on Jewish Material Claims Against Germany, Inc. and as an honorary president of the Orthodox Union. Dorothy Berman ’59S, ’60F is president of the Yeshivat Har Etzion Foundation, a vice chair of the Board of Overseers of Stern College and member of the YU Undergraduate Alumni Council. At the RIETS dinner, Rabbi Berman spoke warmly of his days at Yeshiva and RIETS and his close relationship with Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveichik. It was from the Rav that Rabbi Berman attributed learning the values of dedication to the broader Jewish community.
For alumni, supporters and friends of RIETS who yearned for a more intimate setting in which to mingle with President Joel and other YU Torah personalities, the RIETS Yarchei Kallah over Thanksgiving weekend offered just that. Participants attended shiurim and lectures on, among other topics, chinuch in today’s world; relating values to our children; family minhagim and chumrot; and kibbud av va’eim in difficult circumstances.
Rabbi Reiss commented, “In a world of clashing values and economic turbulence, the wisdom of Torah as transmitted by our RIETS Roshei Yeshiva provides a stabilizing sense of direction for families in our community. This RIETS weekend, devoted to the theme of family issues, enabled us to celebrate the enduring values of the growing family of our Yeshiva. We were truly fortunate to be able to share the time together with over two hundred RIETS family members in an atmosphere of superb shiurim, spiritually stirring Shabbos songs, fabulous food, and cordial camaraderie.”
Where in the World are YU Students this Winter? CJF Winter Missions Take Students Around the Globe
Wednesday, November 30th, 2011
Two separate missions to Israel are being supported by the Jim Joseph Foundation. “Tzedek and Tzedaka” will have men and women, in separate programs, spend each morning immersed in Torah study with YU roshei yeshiva and learning about the relationship between Tzedek (justice) and Tzedaka (charity). In the afternoons, they will explore firsthand how those values manifest in real-life situations in education, social welfare, politics, and religion. “Art in Ort,” a new program, will take students to work with teens from low-income neighborhoods in Jerusalem and help them discover their inner artists. Through artistic workshops and creative projects, the teens will have the opportunity to hone their talents in a warm and nurturing environment created by YU students.
Participants in “Jewish Life Coast to Coast,” which is also being supported by the Jim Joseph Foundation, will travel to San Francisco, Seattle and Vancouver to explore the concept of Jewish community. Students will meet with rabbis, educators and communal and lay leaders, and facilitate educational programs in schools, synagogues, and community centers. Hands-on volunteer projects will also help students gain a better understanding of what it means to contribute to the whole of a community and work to make it a better place, hopefully taking inspiration back to their own hometown communities.
Alumni in the cities visited will have the opportunity to meet YU students who are passionate about changing the world for the better and who serve as great emissaries for your alma mater. Help pitch in with some of the projects on those days:
In San Francisco: from January 13-17
In Seattle: from January 18-19
In Vancouver: from January 20-22
Project Kharkov, in partnership with the Joint Distribution Committee and support from the Eckstein family, will allow participants to gain insight into the welfare and identity struggles facing the Jews of Ukraine and to engage in projects to assist, befriend and inspire local residents.
The CJF has partnered with the American Jewish World Service to offer a humanitarian mission to Nicaragua. A group of YU students will volunteer in Boca de la Montana where they will build a library to promote sustainable development in the district of San Juan del Sur in southwestern Nicaragua. This experience includes opportunities for public speaking, writing, advocacy, and volunteer service. A humanitarian mission to Mexico, also with the American Jewish World Service, will send a group of YU students to assist on a variety of projects including farming and harvesting food in local and home gardens, building pools for aquaculture development, construction work and sustainable agriculture wok in the community nursery.
Finally, a bit closer to home, a delegation of students will be sent to attend the Limmud NY Conference at the Hudson Valley Resort in Kerhonksen, NY, from January 13-16. Limmud is an annual learning festival that spans the different Jewish denominations..
"The CJF winter missions enable students to travel all over the world learning, teaching and volunteering, while gaining exposure to new and exciting people. They explore a range of topics with public intellectuals and study with our roshei yeshiva, university professors and scholars from the regions we travel to,” Rabbi Brander shared. “Throughout these travels, our students engage in the most important journey of self-discovery. Upon their return to campus, we have observed a profound impact on the mission participants as well as the entire YU campus community. Independent research has shown that these missions have a transformative effect on the participants, enabling them to realize their potential as change agents for our Jewish community and society in general."
AFPNetwork Features Talk on the Laws Involved with Giving Charity
Wednesday, November 30th, 2011
Yoni Shenkman ’09SB, who chaired the AFPNetwork event, declared, “The mitzvah of tzedaka is a halachic requirement that Jews take very seriously. From a secular point of view, the uncertainty in the current tax environment leads to many questions on the best way to give, what one can give, and when. The seminar on charitable giving and halacha addressed both the halachic and secular points of view on this important mitzvah. The event also served as a great opportunity for YU alumni who work as accountants, lawyers, and other related fields to network and share ideas.”
For those who were unable to attend the event, we’re delighted to share this link to the online recording of the remarks. You can also enjoy images from the event by visiting our Flickr album. Finally, alumni looking to get involved with the AFPNetwork and who have expertise they can share on accounting, estate planning and financial planning should contact AFPNetwork@yu.edu. Family and Friends Come Together to Recognize Past Macs Basketball Captains at December 18 Alumni Day Event
Wednesday, November 30th, 2011
On Sunday, December 18, the YU Maccabees will play the St. Joseph’s College Golden Eagles, and alumni and friends of YU are invited to attend the big game with their families as part of Alumni Day. Before the 2pm game begins, alumni and their children will have a chance to show off their hoop skills (or just have fun) in shooting contests and in mini 3-on-3 tourney with the current Macs players. There is no age minimum or height requirement for these matches – as long as you can throw a basketball, you’re welcome to participate.
After an energetic morning, it’ll be time to refuel with a delicious family-style buffet lunch and screening of The History of the Macs, a short documentary chronicling the history of YU basketball. Coach Johnny Halpert, the legendary head of the Macs for the past 40 years, will speak in conjunction with the film.
After lunch, the game will get underway, and guests will have a chance to cheer on YU in an exciting game against the Golden Eagles. A special half-time tribute will recognize past captains of the Maccabees in attendance, and a new interactive display will be unveiled. The display will feature captains’ names, photos and bios; a message from Coach Halpert; and documentation of the prestigious history of the team and its significance to YU. The display, a gift generously underwritten by Julie ’89S and Shabsi Schreier ’85YC, the Macs captain from 1983-85, will be mounted on the wall just outside the Melvin Furst Gymnasium in the Max Stern Athletic Center.
Special YU gear will be given to registered guests who show up to display their school spirit. A few spots for Alumni Day are still available; to register, visit yu.edu/alumni/basketball. If you are a former Macs captain who would like to attend, please contact Illana Feiglin, director of alumni affairs, at feiglin@yu.edu. 
